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Cake day: January 2nd, 2023

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  • There are two types of people that use slurs to talk about other folk.

    The first group is made up of folk who don’t give a fuck if they’re hurting others.

    The second group is made up of folk who don’t realise the slur is a slur or don’t understand why the slur is harmful.

    The second group appreciates being informed about the consequences of their words so they can change course.

    People in the first group that are pretending they’re in the second group get angry when called out. But they were always the first group.








  • My birthname was a combination of my mum and my dads name. It was unique, but still read masculine. So I tried to combine my parents names in a way that read feminine, but couldn’t find a way of doing it.

    So, I had a backup name, Danica. But it didn’t fit me when I tried it on

    So, I tried a second backup name, Cadance. It didn’t fit either.

    So I gave up, and turned to a list of names online that I found. I didn’t get very far though. I stumbled across Ada in that list, and I knew that was me.