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  • American Heritage Dictionary; Work, definition:

    Physical or mental effort or activity directed toward the production or accomplishment of something. ”Cleaning the basement was a lot of work."

    Such effort or activity by which one makes a living; employment. ”looking for work."

    Again, kids are work. And since, as another lemming pointed out, some people do it as an actual job, it counts under both definitions.

    And if you do hie off to the Bahamas, you still have to bring that work along. You can’t just leave it behind and just have a relaxing vacation with nothing to do. (Unless you find a babysitter, but then you’re not doing the work of childcare anymore; now you’re using maternal leave for something that isn’t work).



  • Babies are work. They are constant, screaming, pooping, work. Not even 9-5 work, because a very young infant requires around-the-clock care, so really it’s worse than work.

    At least in a regular job you can punch out and leave work at the office and go home and relax, or call in sick if you don’t feel good. None of that with a baby. You have to always be there for them, all day, all night, no matter what, no matter how you feel.

    I think we’re also running into an issue of language, however. ‘Time Off’, as in, not being in the office for an extended period of time, yes, maternity leave is that. ‘Time Off’ as in, a rest, relaxation, vacation, no. Maternity leave is most definitely not that.



  • Holy catfish, though, to some of the other stuff in there.

    The Jan. 3, 2020, prayer was led by televangelist and White House spiritual adviser Paula White. She later came under fire after remarks she made about “satanic pregnancies” and miscarriages. Her words were: “We command all satanic pregnancies to miscarry right now.”

    Then later she complains she was ‘taken out of context’. Sweetheart, I’m not sure that would be a rational statement even in context.







  • Seleni@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRule
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    3 months ago

    It depends in part on male vs female; male rats and mice mark territory (and sometimes even their favorite walking paths, so beware if you let them roam) with urine. Back when I kept rats and mice, the female cages would always smell better than the male cages, no matter what I did.

    Now I keep pythons, and both male and female cages don’t stink lol. I have to admit that the smell is the biggest thing I don’t miss about having pet rodents.