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Cake day: November 9th, 2023

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  • WeeSheep@lemmy.worldtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldHow much for cuddles?
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    5 months ago

    Unfortunately, women tend to want partners, men want caregivers. Reminding him to care for his kids because he doesn’t recognize how children as his responsibility is now a women’s personality issue, rather than a man’s personality issue. It’s wild that a woman doing merely most of the care work and the full entirety of family organization from cleaning to meals has become something to look down on as a woman failing rather than men being irresponsible and not respecting their spouse.


  • WeeSheep@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldTotally mad
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    5 months ago

    Based on the comments, a lot of people have trouble remembering this stuff. Don’t get me wrong, I do too. Most calendar apps (Google, Outlook, idk others) have reminders you can set however much time in advance you need, for whatever sort of event or reminder you need. For a lot of birthdays I’ll have a month before reminder so I can order something online or remember to pick something up, two weeks reminder so I can either check on shipping or in case I forgot to get whatever I thought of, a week reminder because I might have forgotten twice before or whatever needs to ship, then day of or day before so I can tell the person so it doesn’t seem like I forgot already 3 times even with reminders.



  • Fortunately the ones who seemed socially awkward were the ones who did understand no. The majority who gave me scares were likely on the spectrum but none went too far. The ones who went too far and never respected no were definitely not on the spectrum, they were self centered and didn’t pay attention to others.

    There are plenty of men who act like boys because they have seen grace for their actions their whole lives. The result is that they cannot learn from their actions because they never learned how. They cannot understand when others don’t let them do whatever they want, and they don’t recognize consequences for their actions because they never had any. This may describe some on the spectrum but it has nothing to do with autism.